• STARTOVER.XYZ

    This website is a Bubble in the Bubble Map of the massively-multiplayer online-and-offline thoughtware-upgrade personal-transformation game called StartOver.xyz. It is a doorway to experiments that upgrade your thoughtware so you can create more possibility. Your knowledge is what you think about. Your thoughtware is what you use to think with. When you change your thoughtware, you go through a liquid state as your mind reorganizes itself. Liquid states can bring up transformational feelings and emotions. Please read this website responsibly. By upgrading your thoughtware you build matrix to hold more consciousness. No one can do this for you. No one can stop you from doing it. Our theory is that when we collectively build one million more Matrix Points we will change the morphogenetic field of the human race for the better. Reading this whole website is worth 1 Matrix Point. Doing any of the experiments earns you additional Matrix Points. Please use Matrix Code FLYSCHOL.00 to log your Matrix Points earned at this website on http://StartOver.xyz. Thank you for playing full out!

  • What would relationship look like if we could dance like this with one another?

    What would our gameworld look like if we could dance like this with the Universe?

    What is in the way of you flying weightlessly?

  • FLYING INSTRUCTIONS

    These are the seven instructions for flying.

    These are all the flying instructions you will ever need. If you get them, try to teach them to others.

    Have fun! And, thanks for asking.

    1

    Do not ask “How do you fly?”

    To fly, do not ask the question, “How do you fly?” Asking this question is a distraction from flying. Asking the question, “How do you fly?” is a defense against flying. You already know how to fly. Human beings are designed to fly. Human beings are not designed to live within the positional confines of a rigidly known psychological defense strategy. You are designed to live in the fluidic groundless unknowable process of evolutionary expansion. Flying is your nature.

    2

    Do not look down.

    As soon as you look down, the Box gets linear and sees all the well-known “problems” inherent to flying. “Hmmm, I wonder how high we are? What’s the air speed and temperature up here? How much fuel do we have left? How did we get up this high anyway? What is that thing down there? AAAARRRGGGHHH!” Crash!

    3

    Take yourself lightly

    The idea is old and trite, but that does not make it untrue: Love is angel food. Angels can fly because they take themselves lightly. Stay light by constantly dropping the baggage of considerations about past and future. Humor is grease to slip free of seriousness. Now is almost weightless. If it is heavy it is not Love. Stay unhookable by staying connected to nothingness. Nothingness cannot be hooked onto by anything. A small Disk Of Nothing helps to keep you Angelweight.

    4

    Delight

    What delights you? What delights the other? Use these questions as your compass. Play. Discover. Go nonlinear. Totally stop. Be. Open. Try again. Spin. G[r>jak#L*! (This is the spelling for a delightful activity for which we do not yet have a word.) Navigate the space of relationship towards delight happening. Why not? Delight is alive, so you will always have a moving target. What is delightful now is not necessarily delightful now. Delight only happens now.

    5

    Create

    Relationship is ongoing nonlinear creation. Love and creating are the same experience; they come out of the same field. You are a being who lives when Love flows through you, when you have someone to give Love to and they are receiving it. Keep creating new ways to express Love. Create ways to love out of nothing but Love itself. You source Love. Love does not come from somebody else. Love is all there is. Instead of using your massive powers of creating to create things now to be exactly how they were three seconds ago, use your massive powers of creating to create Love fresh each three seconds.

    6

    Learn to fly solo

    You will never be able to be happy with another person if you cannot already tolerate the intensity of being radiantly happy all by yourself. No matter what the circumstances, if you really wanted to be happy, who could stop you? If you really want to be happy right now, prove it.

    7

    So what?

    There are many reasons for not flying. So what? Many people will not understand what you are doing. They might be offended. They might not believe you. So what? Flying might be impossible. It might not be permitted by your culture and times. It might be outside the conceivability limits of your relatives or neighbors. So what? You get the idea. So what?

  • The INVITATION by Oriah Mountain Dreamer

     

    It doesn't interest me
    what you do for a living.
    I want to know
    what you ache for
    and if you dare to dream
    of meeting your heart's longing.

     

    It doesn't interest me
    how old you are.
    I want to know
    if you will risk
    looking like a fool
    for love
    for your dream
    for the adventure of being alive.

     

    It doesnt interest me
    what planets are
    squaring your moon...
    I want to know
    if you have touched
    the centre of your own sorrow
    if you have been opened
    by life's betrayals
    or have become shrivelled and closed
    from fear of further pain.

     

    I want to know
    if you can sit with pain
    mine or your own
    without moving to hide it
    or fade it
    or fix it.

     

    I want to know
    if you can be with joy
    mine or your own
    if you can dance with wildness
    and let the ecstasy fill you
    to the tips of your fingers and toes
    without cautioning us
    to be careful
    to be realistic
    to remember the limitations
    of being human.

     

    It doesn't interest me
    if the story you are telling me
    is true.

    I want to know if you can
    disappoint another
    to be true to yourself.
    If you can bear
    the accusation of betrayal
    and not betray your own soul.
    If you can be faithless
    and therefore trustworthy.

     

    I want to know if you can see Beauty
    even when it is not pretty
    every day.
    And if you can source your own life
    from its presence.

     

    I want to know
    if you can live with failure
    yours and mine
    and still stand at the edge of the lake
    and shout to the silver of the full moon,

    "Yes."

     

    It doesn't interest me
    to know where you live
    or how much money you have.

     

    I want to know if you can get up
    after the night of grief and despair
    weary and bruised to the bone
    and do what needs to be done
    to feed the children.

     

    It doesn't interest me
    who you know
    or how you came to be here.
    I want to know if you will stand
    in the centre of the fire
    with me
    and not shrink back.

     

    It doesn't interest me
    where or what or with whom
    you have studied.
    I want to know
    what sustains you
    from the inside
    when all else falls away.

     

    I want to know
    if you can be alone
    with yourself
    and if you truly like
    the company you keep
    in the empty moments.